Your man’s never-endingly negative about the economic recession—how can you put the positive back into your lives?

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My man is taking the economy really hard because he works construction and things have been really slow. My job is stable so we have been okay with money. The problem is that he is always complaining and worrying about what will happen if things don’t pick up. It’s starting to make us fight because I am trying to be positive and happy for the Lord’s blessings but I don’t know how to make him see that things will be alright if we just have faith.

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While the recession is on everyone’s mind, it is definitely hitting some harder than others. The reason for this is twofold: First of all, how close a person is to the problem will affect their attitude. For example, your boyfriend is in an industry that is significantly impacted by the housing market. Since much of the problem began with home loans, lenders are now less than lenient. This means the number of people who can afford to buy, build, or add on is seriously stifled, and this directly affects construction revenue. Furthermore, the fact that your man is probably paid only when there is a project means he’s going to notice the current downturn more than someone like yourself, a salaried employee.

The bad news is that this first factor isn’t easily resolved by a positive attitude. However, the second aspect that affects a person’s view of the current climate can be morphed by mere mindset. This is the strength of their faith and optimism.

As Christians, we pride ourselves on our faith. But it’s all too easy to spout on about the strength of our beliefs when things are good. The true test of our faith, however, is when things aren’t petering along so perfectly. Like, say, during an economic recession. This is the time when we must put our tough talk into action—or in this case into attitude—and use it to keep negativism to a minimum.

But how exactly can we mold our mindset into a more positive one? How can we keep the faith of Christians without acting totally out of touch with reality? And, as in your case, how can we keep the current financial situation from breaking the bond between our loved ones and ourselves?

Tips for staying sane and spiritually centered during a downturn

Keep panic in perspective
Although the recession is very real, it’s important to remember that what we hear on the news are always the worst-case scenarios. And while they are true tales, they don’t mean you will meet the same fate. In your situation, this means pointing out to your boyfriend that the two of you are plodding along just fine…and that things will look up.

Take this opportunity to learn how to manage your money
While I just said not to panic, I’m not saying you should turn a blind eye to finances either. In fact, now is a terrific time to better your management of money. Are you properly prepared for the future? How would you handle things should the recession become extended? Are you aware of simple (and spiritual) solutions to achieve financial security and live the life God intended for you?

There are some wonderful resources that give Christians practical, positive information on directing their focus towards prosperity. (One that I consider a must-read is Vow of Prosperity by Bishop Noel Jones and Scott Chaplan, which"
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"Readying Yourself for Romance Part I: The Physical Preparation"

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As a Christian, this latter issue, that of attending to your physical appearance, might seem like it should be low on your priority list. But it shouldn’t. The reason is that, while objectively, how you look isn’t your most important aspect, how you feel about how you look is critical. If you feel attractive and desirable to the opposite sex, you will carry yourself with confidence. And confidence is a key component in attracting others.

When it comes to physical preparation, there are two elements: how you ready yourself to start dating in general and how you prepare yourself for an actual date. Because, again, looking your best is an advantage in initially attracting a mate; but more significantly, feeling secure with your appearance affects your attitude and actions. It draws others in like a magnet…and is much more powerful than whether or not you were born beautiful." To read complete article go to www.blackchristiandatingadvice.com

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"BISHOP NOEL JONES ON INSPIRATION NETWORK: New show ‘Fresh Oil’ added to the rapidly growing television network."

This is great news I want to congratulate Bishop Noel Jones on his new venture. Here is the complete article from www.eurweb.com."The Inspiration Network, one of the fastest-growing inspirational networks in the U.S. announced that international ministry leader Bishop Noel Jones has been added to the lineup.

Bishop Jones' “Fresh Oil” broadcasts feature the unique preaching and teaching style that has made him a trusted source for spiritual guidance to millions across the world. His program will air on INSP on Fridays at 6:30 a.m. EST.


“Adding Bishop Noel Jones to INSP's lineup is a great programming addition for our cable and satellite viewers,” said Marc Favaro, senior vice president of network sales for INSP's parent company The Inspiration Networks. "He is one of the most respected ministry leaders of our time and has amassed a solid following not only in the U.S., but internationally as well. I'm sure that our viewers will benefit from the wealth of knowledge and insight he delivers each week.”


Bishop Jones pastors the City of Refuge Church in Gardena, CA (near Los Angeles). Since his installment as pastor in June 1994, the membership has grown from approximately 3,300 people to over 17,000. The organization is actively involved in serving the community, with outreach efforts that include rehabilitative programs, ministries for the deaf, and programs for artists, singles, the incarcerated, youth, and young adults.


His intellectual, scriptural approach and intense oratorical style impacts people from all walks of life and has encouraged the faith of people across the globe from Seattle to Miami, from London to Africa. Many hail his method as being practical, yet powerful while also penetrating the hardest of hearts, captivating the attention of the restless and convincing the confused that God is able to save anybody.


Jones serves as a columnist for one of the nation's premier Gospel publications, Gospel Today Magazine, and also is a frequent guest on a number of shows and has appeared as a panelist on both CNN and NPR. His many achievements include being honored by the Mayor of Syracuse, New York for aiding in the establishment of a city-wide Crusade Day, a multi-cultural, non-denominational conference encouraging the participation of all Syracuse and Central New York residents."


For more information about Bishop Noel Jones visit www.noeljones.org.